If things begin to get more serious than you expected
If you feel like things are moving too quickly, you’ll want to double check to make sure you’re not in a rebound relationship.
Also, if you feel he is too comfortable around you, or he has a knack to always want to sleep over like he never really left his old relationship, then that should be a red flag.
Sometimes people who are getting over a heartbreak will jump on the next available bus, to escape the pain that comes with heartbreak.
If he needs a date for an upcoming event
Sadly, if you find yourself in this situation, you may not even be in a rebound relationship; you may just be the only available person he can take for his big event.
So, if you find out your new heartthrob is preparing for a major event and his ex may likely grace the said event, alarm bells should start ringing.
Sometimes guys want to always prove to their ex that they have finally moved on and don’t regret their breakup. As much he would like to pretend; he is still very much in love with her. You don’t want to be caught up in that mess, do you? I expect not, so you should be smart to protect yourself from getting hurt.
When your new guy and you have nothing in common
Do you think you’re in love with someone who shares absolutely nothing in common with you? Or maybe you both just got out of a relationship and are just chilling together to escape the pain of heartbreak?
If that’s the case, then you have got to sever the relationship and take out time to work on yourself. It’s easy to bond with someone after a bad breakup, but the truth is, such relationships wouldn’t last, so why sweat it?
If it’s just about the sex and fun
Do you feel like your new heartthrob loves you because of the great sex sessions you both indulge in? Or maybe you can’t really point out where your new relationship is heading to?
Well, you don’t need a soothsayer to tell you that you might have gotten yourself entangled in a rebound relationship. Every serious relationship should have an expected goal. If there is no goal, then I’m afraid you may be in love with someone who is not serious about you. My advice, cut ties immediately.
He fantasizes about his ex
Well, there are guys who never easily get over their ex. They can spend hours drooling about their ex. They may even go as far as comparing you with their ex. And you know what that means right? It may be very hard winning his attention. So, your best bet, quit that relationship because I see no future for you guys.